The San Francisco 49ers

I was born a Niners fan.  My family of athletes doesn't believe in raising their children to make their own sports loyalty decisions.  We tell you who to support when you come out of the womb and you get on board or you find a new family.  It's been done this way since cavemen and I plan to force the same loyalties on my children.

To me, the San Francisco 49ers have meant loyalty, tradition and excellence above all.  They stand for winning, sportsmanship, teamwork and class.  I grew up in awe of Steve Young, Joe Montana, Jerry Rice, Dwight Clark - legends in their field.  Whether we won a ring or not - I was proud to wear red and gold. 

In recent years, the organization has lost its way.  Now before you claim I am merely bitter because we are 1-12, understand that you're wrong.  There's a reason we can't keep a coach, players, or even staff.  There's a reason the Niners were named the worst organization in sports.  And there's a reason that our past coaches and players thrive on other teams and within other organizations.

When it's not coaching and its not your players - it's ownership.  Success starts at the top.  It takes a good leader to make the right decisions and put the right people into the puzzle to make it all fit.  And right now - we have a really poor leader.  Don't believe me?  Let's talk. 

Jim Harbaugh - he was 43-19-1 with the 49ers.  He was a leader in the locker room - certainly overly passionate but he knew what he was doing.  He's considered one of the most successful coaches in franchise history.  Since Jim Harbaugh left we have won I believe 6 of the last 28 games.  Jim is now at Michigan - a team ranked consistently top 10 since he took over.

Patrick Willis.  Patrick Willis spent his entire 8 year career as a 49er as one of the best to play the game.  7x Pro bowl, NFL defensive rookie of the year, 5x first team all pro - and the list goes on.  He retired from the game rather than stay with the organization.  Certainly we can talk about his injuries and his heart wasn't in it - but I still place some of the blame on the Niners for not making it a place he loved being anymore.  **To be fair - I am in love with Patrick Willis so basically nothing he does is wrong in my eyes. 

Do we even go into our draft picks of late?  I'm no expert but what in the hell is Trent Baalke thinking when he goes into a draft?  Is he throwing darts?  Drawing cards?  GUESSING?  I honestly want to know what happens in that war room.  And I want to know if the rest of the ops team is in support or just as confused as us fans are?  All I know for sure is since 2011 when Baalke became the permanent GM - I've not been impressed.  And that 2011 season that the experts credit to his turnaround?  I credit that to a Jim Harbaugh coaching regime.  Because ok - Aldon Smith was great for a hot minute and so was Kapernick - but can we please look at how both of those draft picks have ended up?  Aldon Smith is a nightmare and does not represent what a 49er player stands for (fitting he's a Raider now) and Kap quite honestly can't hang when the pressure is on and he needs to learn to focus on football during the season instead of his poorly misguided political views (don't vote, don't talk).  Sure he had some brief success but when the rest of the league caught on to his style of play, he began to falter.  He has brief moments of stardom, but again, at the end of the day - you can't rely on Kapernick to get the job done.

From a business standpoint - because sports are a business - Jed York is doing a pretty good job.  He built a stadium that caters to the tech billionaires and draws big shows.  Whether people come to the game or not - he collects on the season tickets and sponsorships.  The concerts, shows, and corporate events are booking up the off season because he built himself an expensive fancy stadium (although close look, it's got some tech and layout issues but I digress).  At the end of the day - the 49ers probably aren't hurting for money.  And realistically, that's probably part of the reason Jed is willing to take risks with the football end of the business.  If you're still going to be rich AF whether you win or lose, might as well take a few liberties with your decisions.  Sports teams are often hobbies to rich owners, not their livelihood.

So now here we are - it's 2016.  We've had two more head coaches (I'm thinking we get a third for the next season), numerous off the field player incidents, and we are 1-12.  I can't name half the players on our team and there's no hope of a comeback in the foreseeable future.

It's a start with getting rid of Trent Baalke but then I want to see the York's go (far less likely but I want to believe the latest rumors).  I want to see big changes and to restore what this organization used to stand for.  No more losing, no more behavioral issues, no more focusing on taking the team out of San Francisco.  This is an organization that's 70 years old.  And for a good 60+ of those years being a Niner fan came with immense pride in what that logo stood for.  Sports are supposed to be fun and to encourage loyalty.  Right now - the only thing this franchise brings to the table is a fancy stadium for the Silicon Valley rich kids.  It's cool you can order a beer with an app, but who's at the game to buy that beer?  NOBODY (see what I did there?).

Jed York, give us our team back.  I will always be a fan, I will always love my Niners.  There's no other team for me.  But I want to feel proud of that loyalty again.  I want to wear my gear and remember the tradition, respect, class and excellence it stands for.  I am forever faithful, make that mean something again.

**If you're not a Niner fan and you say anything bad about my team, you're dead to me and I'll fight you. 

***My version of fighting is to throw glitter in your eye. (Except that time in AZ where me and my cousin almost fought some Cardinals fans, but really, that was the vodka's fault and I'm really sorry I almost got us into World War 3...anywhoo!)

None of the Things

I often speak in absolutes.  I want all of the foods.  I need all of the things.  But recently I've started realizing - I could probably do with less of the things - maybe just have some of the things and focus more on the experiences.

I've always had lots of things.  Clothes, shoes, technologies, accessories, home goods - I'm telling you - all of the things.  And the more I move - the more I discover new things I didn't know I had.  Clothes with the tags still on them that I purchased 3 years ago.  Shoes new in boxes that I bought a year ago.  A fancy running watch I wore probably a handful of times and then exchanged for the latest greatest Fitbit.  You get the point.  I own all the things and I'm basically a hoarder. 

So I started trying something new.  Every time I move I make a conscious effort to get real with myself about the things I own.  If I haven't worn something in 2 years, it goes in the donate pile.  When I moved from Arizona back to California - I donated 8 trash bags - yes those would be full size trash bags - of clothing.  I was also able to sell 2 full bags and make a profit of $300.  But being able to easily give away 8 big bags of my clothes - mind you this was the first time I cleansed so I was truly only getting rid of things I could easily part with - and I was still able to fill 8 bags.  The second time I cleansed - I was able to donate 3 more bags.  Realizing the amount of stuff I owned that was of no importance opened my eyes to how much money I was wasting on things.  Things that could instead be experiences.

I always talk about my bucket list.  And a lot of my bucket list items are expensive.  They're exotic trips, tickets to the biggest events in sports, meals at some hard to get into restaurants.  And I started to think - are the things I own worth giving up the bucket list experiences?  For me - they're not.  I don't need a new outfit more than I need a plane ticket to Maui.  I won't get more happiness from an expensive haircut than I will from going to the National Championship football game.  I'll absolutely enjoy drinking wine in Italy more than that expensive kitchen table I've been eyeing. 

Mind you I've also never had time for experiences before.  A lot of my bucket list items were checked off because of work trips and work experiences.  But now that I've made a commitment to a work life balance - I've got all this time to do things and not a lot of extra cash to make it happen.

So I changed my focus.  I'm a conscious buyer now.  When I'm shopping, when I'm out with friends, basically when I'm doing anything I'm asking myself is this a need or a want?  If I don't spend $50 on this - can I put it towards my next experience?  And while I'm not ready to book my South African Safari, I am closer than I was six months ago.  And if I continue on this path - I'll be able to continue checking off bucket list items.  And for me - those experiences are what make my life feel so full.  It's not the shoes and clothes and fancy kitchen items I'll remember - it's the feelings I'll get from being able to adventure.  It's the relationships I'll build on unforgettable trips.  And it's witnessing sports history, laying down on the field at Alabama - and it's getting uncomfortable and growing doing things I never thought I could.  Keep all the things - I want all the experiences.

 

Defining Success

America is a country that values success.  We put the American dream above all else.  But what does success mean?  How is success defined?  Traditionally, success often correlates to money.  To having status because you've leveled up to millionaire.  We are a culture that values things more than we value anything else.  We are a culture obsessed with the Kardashians, flashy cars, fancy jewels, and oversized homes.  And just when you think you've made it - someone else comes along and shows you haven't quite got enough. 

Having grown up in a wealthy suburban California town - I understand that success and money go hand in hand.  I always dreamed of the day I would become wealthy and be able to not only buy whatever I wanted, but to support my parents as they got older too.  I love all the things.  The shoes, the shiny jewels, the fancy cars - I enjoy getting my hair and nails done - and I live for traveling.  But I also started my career in an industry that traditionally doesn't pay well.  Like living off top ramen and paying for gas with change not well.  Certainly as I've elevated my career I've elevated my paycheck - but I'm 31 and I am not millionaire. 

By American standards, and by the standards of my country club town - I am not successful.  That's caused me to stop and think.  To reevaluate what success means to me.  Because although I'm not a millionaire (yet), I am not a failure.  I've built a career that I can be proud of.  I've continued to climb the ladder, I've become a mentor to others, and I've set myself up to run my own business one day - and that's certainly not failing.

I've also come to think of success as not strictly related to business.  The most successful people are the people that understand work does not define you.  When I first started out in my career until very recently - I prioritized work over everything.  Even over my health.  Eventually I decided my health, my family, and my friends were more important.  I didn't want to miss the special occasions, I didn't want to be sick and tired all the time - I wanted balance.  And finding a balance between a thriving career and a thriving personal life is success at the highest level. 

Ultimately success means having a strong healthy relationship with myself and others, continuing to grow in my career, and being fiscally stable.  It's being able to recognize that I will forever be a work in progress and that what makes me the most successful is who I am to myself and to the people most important to me.  Money is incredible.  Money affords some amazing opportunities - but money doesn't define success.  I know a lot of really wealthy people who are utter failures at being decent human beings.  And I know people who barely survive and would still give you their last dollar. 

Take time to define what success means to you.  And then throughout the year evaluate where you're at in relation to your definition of success.  Personally - I don't care how much money you have in your bank account if you can't be bothered to be a good person.  In my world, success is joy, its passion, its overcoming adversity, its helping others, its so much more than a dollar figure. 

What does success mean to you?

 

 

Inspire Midtown - Guest Blogger!

I had the privilege of being a guest blogger for a wonderful organization called Inspire Midtown!  Inspire Midtown is dedicated to inspiring and empowering women in both their personal and professional lives.  It's specific to the Sacramento area (where I'm from!) but the message resonates worldwide and was inspired by Sheryl Sandberg's book Lean In. 

My piece speaks to the personal side of being a woman in the world and I will be following it up with a part 2 focusing on women in business!

Check it out and be sure to browse the rest of the website while you're there!  If you're local to the Sacramento region, consider getting involved!  I would be lost without my fierce lady friends and highly recommend finding a group of your own!

Inspire Midtown

The Most Wonderful Time of EVER

Alright - I know.  Technically this is going to fall under a lifestyle piece but hear me out.  The Holiday season is an entire part of the year dedicated to sparkles and smiles.  It stands for giving and thankfulness and magic and it's my website so I'm making this a whole feature blog.  AND YOU CANT STOP ME!

Let's talk décor.  I'm focusing on Christmas décor because my family and I celebrate Christmas.  I'm too excited not to start with the main event!

The Christmas Tree

The most important part of the Christmas tree décor is of course THE TREE!  I love fresh trees but recently we've gone to the pre lit fake trees and bought candles to get that Christmas tree smell.  When decorating your Christmas tree, I advise a theme.  Every year we pick a color scheme and build off that to create our overall look. 

...And the Details!

The rest of your décor is built to match your tree color scheme.  Choose pieces that compliment your centerpiece.  Below are my three favorite Christmas color schemes to get your creative juices flowing!

1. Gold and White: Gold and White is such a classic color scheme.  I love how elegant and glamorous it is.  Add in some silver as well - the mixed metals are great for bouncing light off of.

2. Lime Green and Red: I'm in love with this theme because it's a more playful spin on the traditional green & red.  The lime green gives an extra pop and it's just fun.  Adding in some gold accents is also highly advised for sparkle!

3. Multicolored: So this is just a fun scheme.  It reminds me of being a kid and my mom letting me put the ornaments up however I wanted.  I never had any pattern and the tree always looked like I colored out of the lines but the memories I have make me smile whenever I see someone with a multicolored tree.

I should also point out that I love over the top décor.  I'm talking I want the house to be covered in holiday cheer.  Sparkles, Santas and Smells galore.  I'm also that person who records all the Christmas movies - cheesy Lifetime specials included.  And if we're being honest - I've kiiiiind of been listening to Christmas music since the first week of November. 

Outdoor Décor

Now let's talk about outdoor Christmas décor.  I'm a bit of a snob when it comes to outdoor lighting and décor.  I don't like a lot of fuss or giant Santas.  I prefer lights and classic looks at that.  I know a lot of people love the over the top lights, inflatables, and reindeer on the roof but I find it incredibly tacky (bah humbug).  Clean lines, symmetry, and generally white lights are swoon worthy in my book.

Stockings

I'm not sue if other families make a big deal out of stockings but my favorite gifts have always been stocking stuffers.  I love the little unique gifts that people pick up because something made them think of you.  Stockings are always full of the things you never thought to give yourself and my family is incredible at stocking stuffers.  I could forego the big gifts and exclusively live on stocking surprises.  Because of this - my family has always been big on custom stockings.  We even have them made for the dogs! 

Creative Wrapping

Lastly - I love gift wrapping.  There are so many ways to get creative and make your own tags that the possibilities are endless.  Plus when you've got gifts under the tree that are wrapped with extra love - opening them is just more fun.

I hope you're all having fun decorating your homes for the Holidays and enjoying time spent with the ones you love!  If you thought I was extra annoyingly sparkly before - you may want to stay away from me until February.

#SparkleOn

Number One.

In a world focused on likes, the number of friends on your Facebook, and who you know - it's hard to remember that YOU are number one.  That your relationship with yourself is the most important relationship you will ever have. 

Growing up, I was always a bit of a beat to her own drum kind of kid.  But I also wanted to be well liked.  Instead of embracing everything that made me unique, I often conformed to whatever group I thought I should be like at any given time.  And that's an exhausting way to live life. 

I was often accused of being too much.  Too loud, too feisty, too opinionated.  It's been assumed my upbeat demeanor means I'm dumb.  I've been told I'm too intimidating.  Too picky.  The point is - I've let a lot of people tell me a lot of things about who I should be.  And that got me to a really dark unhappy place.

As hurtful as it is to hear people you care about tell you such ugly things about yourself, you have to learn to ignore it.  I was recently told - would it be nice if your people accepted you?  Yes.  But it's really freeing to not need that.  To accept yourself.  So that's what I'm doing.

I'm a wonderful person.  I'm kind, caring, fiercely loyal, passionate, and committed to standing up for myself and others.  I'm loud, sometimes I put my foot in my mouth, I've been known to raise my voice in a fit of frustration, and I've said mean things to people I love.  I'm a work in progress.  But I am a wonderful person.  And I can honestly say I love who I am. 

That's a really big step for me.  To make the decision to own up to my entire package and say - I'm doing ok.  I'm going to choose to respect the opinions of others who don't agree - but I will not let them define me.  Only I can define who I am. And who I will continue to grow and become.  And I feel so incredibly free being able to not only say that out loud, but to actively work to retrain my brain and to believe it. 

We all have our doubts.  We all let the words of others get to us.  We all have days where we question who we are.  But the key to personal growth and success is to be strong enough to minimize those days.  To come back stronger.

So let's talk about how to self love.  I'd like to leave you with some tools that I am putting into practice on my journey - I hope they help you too:

  • Celebrate your strengths: Every morning, write down a quality about you that's awesome.  Today I wrote down that I'm strong.  I'm a fighter and I'll make it through anything.
  • Acknowledge your areas of growth: Notice I don't say weaknesses.  Areas of growth are things like you have a temper, or you have trouble listening, etc.  Today I wrote down anxiety.  I need to get back to utilizing my tools to control my anxiety.
  • Surround yourself with people who do love you for you: You need cheerleaders.  Keep those people so very close.  They're people who accept you, the good the bad the ugly.  I meet with girlfriends weekly to support each other, talk about our frustrations, and to laugh.  It's incredibly healing and uplifting for us all and I'm beyond grateful for this time.  The no judgment zone is the most freeing place to be
  • Find your Zen: What makes you happy?  What relaxes you?  I love working out, I love writing, and I love reading.  When I'm not having a good mental day - I do these things to reset my mindset.  Do whatever works.  A manicure, shopping, cooking, honestly anything that distracts you and allows you to refocus your negative mindset to a healthier one.
  • Be ok with not being ok: Not every day is a sparkly day.  That's ok.  You're allowed to have a bad day.  Utilize it to understand why you're there and come back stronger the next day.
  • Reflect and Evaluate: Take time throughout the year to reflect on where you were and where you're at and where you're headed.  Mental health awareness is huge.  Are you stuck in a rut?  Are you depressed or frustrated?  Where are you at and if its not a good place, acknowledge it and seek out help.  If you're growing and happy and thriving, celebrate that and focus on keeping along that path.
  • Pay it Forward: Be kind and encouraging to others.  not only does it help others which is incredible, it helps YOU to feel good.  All around, it helps everyone and helps with your development.  And its just good karma.

At the end of the day - if you don't love you, its hard for everyone else to.  Working on yourself and recognizing self love is not selfish it is critical to your growth and sanity.  It's ok to say I need to step away from this unhealthy situation, that you disagree when someone calls you unlikeable, to take time to find yourself.  If you're not in a good place with you, you can't possibly be putting good back out there for everyone else.  Focus on number one once in awhile, for the good of everyone.

#SparkleOn

 

 

Politically Speaking.

The election is over.  Donald Trump is our new President.  I know, Donald Trump, the man who didn't even believe it himself, was elected President of the United States of America.

I'll admit - I cried when I learned that Trump would be our 45th President.  I shed about 6 whole tears, which incidentally is more than I've shed in about 100 years of existence.  Politically speaking - I don't much care for politics.  And politically speaking - I'm not upset about the politics associated with Donald Trump.  But I am upset that a man ran an entire campaign based in blatant racist, sexist, hateful sentiments - and he won.

I'm upset that people, intelligent, loving, good human beings were so upset with the state of our nation that they were willing to overlook these sentiments and elect this man as our leader.  No, not all voters who selected Trump are racist or sexist - but a vote for Trump is a vote that says "I'm willing to condone how he ran his campaign because of other factors."

And what a luxury that is.  There's a great divide between those who believe a vote for Trump is a vote for hate and those who simply claim they disagree with how he chose to run his campaign but believe in his politics.  And believe me, I get that.  I'm fiscally Republican.  Socially - I lean more Democratic.  Realistically, I should be part of that whole group that has such a mixed bag of views they don't even fit Independents.  I should start a sparkly party.  I digress (as I so often do), what is hard for me to understand is:

1. If you don't believe a vote for Trump is a vote for hate what is your justification to vote for someone who ran a campaign on blatant racist, sexist, and went so far to even mock a disabled person?  Are you a protected class?

2. Now that we've started to "give Trump a chance" as he elects his surrounding team and that he's shown to put some bad people in place - do you still back your vote?  If you do, where do we draw the line?

3. Are you altogether denying that racism/sexism/bigotry exist as a larger problem?

Truly - I'm accepting and open to different beliefs.  I enjoy open discussion and have made a point to understand both sides.  I've had great debate with friends and people I respect who voted for Trump.  And whether I'm wrong or right - I want to understand why as a nation we aren't more concerned about the implications of this type of campaign and Presidency?  I want to understand why groups of people don't feel as passionate about the racist/sexist/bigoted speech and actions.  I want to know why its easy for some to dismiss the concerns of millions and say "get over it".  I'm intensely curious about all of these things.  And I want to see discussion, evaluation, and accountability for all of it. 

At the end of four years - I would love to be wrong.  I would love to see Donald Trump turn into a saint who brings America better and makes us the strongest we've ever been.  But I'm scared we set ourselves back and created a scary place to exist.  And I think it's ok to feel scared.  It's ok to have questions.  Instead of the hateful arguments and accusations and telling citizens how to feel - talk to each other.  Realize the only way we get through this is to respect each other, to communicate, and to be open minded.  Dividing ourselves is not only unproductive its positively stupid.  It's how we destroy ourselves.  Put aside your pride and actively listen to the concerns of others.  We have to exist together and personally I would like to exist in a positive way - the only way to do that is to come together so that we have a majority of open minded people.  To work together so much that the few that are truly bad seeds cannot be heard. 

 

Muchas Gracias!

Yesterday was Thanksgiving.  A day dedicated to giving thanks for what you're most grateful for.  And while every day should have time to feel thankful - I love seeing everyone's sentiments and things they are thankful for during the Holidays. 

The past year has been especially tough for me.  I've been faced with many challenges that I wasn't sure I'd survive.  Generally I don't share my struggles with many people.  I prefer to focus on the good and positive thinking - but just like anyone - I have hard times.  I wanted to share some of the things I'm thankful for because despite everything I've been thrown this year - I am incredibly thankful for the life that I have been afforded.

I give thanks for...

  • Family (and friends who are family): Opening up to my people lately has allowed me to realize I've got a lot of people in my corner and if I trust them and let down my guard, I have an incredible support system to lean on
  • Open Mindedness: There's a lot of hate, turmoil, and uncertainties out there right now.  I'm thankful I have open minded humans around me that I can have positive, open, productive conversations with
  • My Health: If you know me well, you know my health has given me some challenges.  Right now, I've got very little complaints, and that's incredible. 
  • Ignorance: I know, what a weird thing to be grateful for - but I am grateful for ignorance because its taught me patience and its taught me to let go of toxic people and situations.
  • My Puppy: Having a puppy for a year now has taught me so much about unconditional love, patience and how to care for another creature's livelihood.  #Adulting

There you go.  That's my very short list of the things I'm especially thankful for this year.  I try to take time to be thankful every day because thankfulness creates mindfulness and fuels positivity.  And in a world that is currently facing a lot of turmoil - I choose to combat that with unrelenting optimism.

I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving and ate all the foods!  Cheers to the most wonderful time of year my friends!

#SparkleOn

Even Year Magic

Fair warning: if you're not a San Francisco Giants fan, you may not like this post.  But if you're into sports and believing in the impossible, this is the blog for you.

A little history.  I'm a born and bred Giants fan.  Since I was born my parents had been part of a group of friends who bought season tickets.  I grew up at Candlestick and graduated to AT&T Park (then Pac Bell Park) when it opened in 2000.  I associate the Giants with my childhood, my family and a huge part of my passion for sports.  The organization is synonymous with class, winning, and fun.  And that's what sports are at their core.  I truly believe the San Francisco Giants are the best business in sports and AT&T Park is the most beautiful ballpark in the game. 

Even year magic.  To me, its the magic that leads a team everyone counted out - to win three rings in 5 years.  A team who hadn't won a championship since 1954, who hadn't even made the playoffs in 7 years - to win its first even year ring in 5 games.  It's an unexplainable passion, drive, and will to win.  It's what makes sports great.  Even year magic is what we mean in sports when we say on any given day anyone can win.  And although our even year magic came to a halt in 2016 - I still believe in it.  I still believe 2018 will feel special.  I still believe in the organization that taught us to believe in the impossible.

I'm nostalgic.  I'll talk about 2010, 2012, and 2014 on my death bed.  My great grandkids are going to talk about how senile and repetitive I am and they wont be wrong.  In case you're not a fan - I'm going to walk you through even year magic.  And if you are a fan - enjoy, I know you feel the same excitement I do every time someone brings up our Giants and even year baseball.

2010

Recap: It all started in 2010.  It was our 53rd year in San Francisco and it was the first time we made the playoffs since 2003.  We started the season strong - and then came August.  August was rough.  We ended August 13-15 and thus began what would be known as bay area torture that continues to consume us today.  September rolled around and we staged a hard fought comeback - finishing 18-26 and a playoff berth.  The first game of the NLDS Tim Lincecum set a postseason franchise strikeout record at 14 and we won 1-0, finishing the series in victory on October 11th.  Next up - the Phillies for the NLCS.  The Phillies were heavily favored and were seeking their third pennant in a row. And then game 1 and Cody Ross happened.  Two home runs and some insane pitching by Timmy and we stole game 1 by one run.  Philly answered strong with a huge win for game 2 and the Giants took game 3.  After a back and forth battle - the Giants took the pennant in Game 6.  Now onto the World Series.  The Texas Rangers had just won their first pennant but the Giants were on a high.  Game 1 saw an 11-7 Giants easy win.  Games 2-5 were pure pitching duels - thankfully with a San Francisco Giants 3-1 win in Texas. 

Favorite players from 2010: Cody Ross became one of my all time favorites this year.  I met him at an event in 2015 and was completely star struck.  Giants fans you'll be happy to know he's a genuinely cool guy who loves the Giants organization.  Tim Linceum was a pitching animal.  He's now not part of the organization and has had his struggles but he will forever be a Giants great.  Brian Wilson.  We fell in love - that is all.  #FearTheBeard

Favorite Moment from 2010: NLCS. Cody Ross. 2 home runs.  I'm certain this needs no further explanation.

2010 Fun Facts:

  • First championships since moving the team to San Francisco
  • First world series championship for the city and county of San Francisco

2012

Recap: So 2012 was a good year for us.  We ended the season 97-68 and 1st in the NL West.  But don't let that fool you because the post season was full of torture.  The division series saw us overcome a 2-0 deficit and then the NLCS gave us real magic with overcoming the St. Louis Cardinals who were at a 3-0 series advantage.  To be clear - that means we overcame SIX elimination games to get to the World Series.  Yes, SIX.  Only one other team has done that in baseball and not since 1985. Fear not though because we swept the Detroit Tigers in the World Series to make up for all of the early postseason torture.  Now a sweep is also misleading.  The Detroit Tigers were heavily favored over our boys in orange.  And we couldn't have done it without Pablo Sandoval (I hate that fat Panda - not so good now are ya jerk?) and his three game 1 homers.  Not to mention the continuous talent of our bullpen.  They only allowed 6 runs in 4 games - the lowest total for a world series since 1966.  2012 yet again taught us that when you push the Giants to the impossible - they not only meet your challenge, they exceed it.

Favorite Players from 2012: I hate saying this because his true colors have shown he's not a true Giant - but Pablo was a 2012 great.  He was my favorite 2012 Giant and I hate that.  Marco Scutaro and that late 10th inning hit that would cause the game 4 winning run of the NLCS.  He earned that NLCS MVP Award and truly gave us the momentum that is even year magic.

Favorite Moment of 2010: Hunter Pence and that speech.  Read it, remember it.  We were facing elimination from the Reds and Pence changed the game:

"Get in here, everyone get in here... look into each other eyes... now! Look into each others eyes, I want one more day with you, it's the most fun, the best team I have ever been on, and no matter what happens we must not give in, we owe it to each other, play for each other. I need one more day with you guys, I need to see what [Ryan] Theriot will wear tomorrow, I want to play defense behind Vogelsong because he's never been to the playoffs... play for each other not yourself, win each moment, win each inning, it's all we have left."

2012 Fun Facts:

  • Scutaro tied an LCS record with 14 hits in the NLCS
  • In Game 1 of the 2012 World Series, Pablo Sandoval tied a World Series record by hitting three home runs in one game, two of them against starting pitcher, Justin Verlander the reigning 2011 winner of the AL Cy Young, the AL Pitching Triple Crown, and the AL MVP

2014

Recap: 2014 was more eventful.  We finished in second place in the NL West and had to defeat the Pirates for a chance at the playoffs (which spoiler alert, we did).  Onto the NLDS where in game 1 Jake Peavy didn't allow a hit until the bottom of the 5th inning.  Game 2 lasted 18 inning before the Giants secured its 10th consecutive post season win.  The Nationals took game 3, the Giants game 4 and advanced to the NLCS.  The NLCS saw the Giants victorious in 5 and Travis Ishikawa was the star of the series as the first NLCS player in history to send his team to the World Series on a walk off homerun.  And now - the 2014 World Series.  Truly bay area torture at its finest this series went 7 games.  All seemed like we may have a repeat of 2012 with a game one 7-1 Giants victory.  But game 2 saw a Royals 7-2 victory and proved they came to play.  the rest o the series was a back and forth high scoring battle leading up to game 7 which ended in a Giants 3-2 victory.  Stars of the series?  Madison Bumgarner and the Giants pitching crew.  2014 is truly where we saw the continuous magic that is Madison Bumgarner.

Favorite Players from2014: Madison Bumgarner.  There is truly no even year magic without this man.  He's ben the WS MVP, NLCS MVP, 2x Silver Slugger, Willie Mac Award winner, Babe Ruth Award winner, Sports Illustrated Sportsman of the Year, and he's got 3 rings with the Giants. 

Favorite Moment from 2014: Timmy's no hitter, the 16th no hitter in organization history.  I love Timmy, he was a huge part of this era of Giants baseball.  It was his second of his career and against the Padres, which I loved to see.

2014 Fun Facts:

  • Bumgarner himself extended his postseason scoreless streak on the road to a new MLB record 32  2⁄3 innings, and took over the Giants record for postseason wins with 6. (WS Game 1)
  • Incredibly only three days after making 117 pitches in shutting out the Royals in Game 5, Bumgarner pitched 5 innings of scoreless relief making 68 pitches and not walking a batter. He broke the record set by Curt Schiling for the most innings pitched in a single postseason

Now I couldn't be a true even year believer without thanking Bruce Bochy.  Bochy is the best in the game.  We would not have won 3 in 5 without his leadership.  His decision making, his leadership style, the fact that he commands respect from the best in the game - make him a legend.  And I never want to lose him. Ever.

  Lastly, even year magic is the 2010, 2012, and 2014 teams because I've never seen a dugout have more fun than watching the Giants those seasons.  Seeing the team joke around, smile laugh and truly enjoy baseball is what I love.  It reminds me of being a little kid and feeling invincible.  It reminds me of what sports mean to me in my soul.  It reminds me that at the end of the day - when you believe in magic - you can do anything.  Including three world series in five years.  And although we didn't continue in 2016 - I am so grateful for this team for teaching me to believe in magic.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dogs are People Too.

If you don't love dogs, you have no soul.  You're scientifically dead inside.  Dogs are the only creatures in the world that love you more than they love themselves.  They're always ready to celebrate the smallest things.  They just want to eat, snuggle, and play.  Dogs are people too, but more like better people than we are.

I've grown up in a family with dogs.  And my family treats our dogs like family members, because they are.  Our dogs go on vacation with us, we spend ridiculous amounts of money on their food, healthcare, and toys - and they sleep in our beds.  My mom has told me many times the dog is the favorite child - and I get it.  I've skyped with my dog, I have photos of my dog up in the house, if I have to leave my dog with someone for the weekend I text that person 1 billion times a day to check on him.  Because dogs are people too.

When I'm sick - my dog lays with me.  When I'm sad my dog licks my tears (JK guys I don't have feelings).  When I am stoked - my dog cheers too.  I celebrate his birthday, he has a girlfriend (Shout out to Lily in Scottsdale we miss you!), I will contort my body in bed rather than disturb his dreaming.  Because dogs are people too.

My family and I have spent thousands of dollars on our dogs.  When they need medical care, we don't even consider not getting them what they need.  We research the best foods and toys and treats and we spend the money to buy the best of the best.  My dog eats a grain free protein based diet - he literally has a healthier lifestyle than I do.  I walk him 1-2 miles a day to ensure he stays active and healthy.  If he sneezes, I panic.  I once took him to the vet because I thought he was dying - he had gas.  I spent $600 at the pet emergency room for the puppy flu.  Because dogs are people too. 

When I don't want to be social.  When I'm sad.  When I'm needing comfort - I want to be around all the dogs.  Dogs don't talk back.  They don't judge you. They just unconditionally love you. You're not drinking alone when you have a dog.  Dogs go to heaven because if I get to heaven and mine aren't all there - that is hell.  Dogs are people too.  And if you ever try to tell me that they aren't - I hate you, you're wrong and you're dead to me.

PS - ADOPT DONT SHOP!  Support your local SPCA, animal shelter, rescue organization and save a puppy life or 100! #AdoptDontShop